"One plus one isn't two"
I tuned in to a radio channel this morning and the radio announcer talking about Valentine's.
"My wife was angry with me yesterday"
"She is angry that I did not get her a bouquet of flower and send it to her office"
"Oh c'mon man, it's Valentines. I wouldn't even back you up this time"
"No, listen. I have actually booked a place for two in a fine dining restaurant with flowers and live music. There are flowers for her, but its just during dinner, not during working hours"
Then there's this awkward silence for a moment.
Is this man really at fault now?
I doubt.
We had a conversation today, with one colleague of mine, asking about what happened last night.
He looked at me and said - "We broke up".
"(Huh) What?!" - I looked into his eyes and this explains the baggy eyes on his face.
I was too busybody and asked him "What made you two broke up actually?"
"She said I was insensitive to special days like this"
"She said I have never appreciated her as someone special"
"She said I should have even wished her, simple"
"What's that called again, took someone for..."
"Granted?"
He smiled, at his own stupidity. Followed with a laughter, sarcastic one, laughing at himself.
"But she never knew this is a plot, I planned something"
"What have you planned?"
"A proposal?"
"I was going to go down on my knees last night after two years, I talked to her about having a dinner together. She just thinks nothing gonna happen just because its a place we used to go"
"I got everything plotted just nice, just me and her and a ring?"
My eyes went looking something on him, I saw him wearing the ring, on his middle finger.
I speak no more, he spoke sadness in silence.
"She will know, tell her and mend things if you want to"
"I hope and wish I can, still"
Despite seeing all lovebirds flashing their sweethearts publicly, there are people that do not enjoy valentines.
They experience heartbreaks.
I can still remember what an aunt of mine told me.
"One plus one is not two, it will never be", referring to marriage.
"How is it so?"
"One plus one is one and a half, or 3 over 2"
You get stronger, because 3 over 2, 3 is stronger than 2, thus you get stronger together.
Now, listen closely.
One and a half is because you giving up some part of you and your partner as well and be together.
There is no one, in this world for a partner that can take every single thing.
You have to give up or give in something, it's not pure maths.
Always remember that there will be something good in the bad and vice versa.
No harm to take a step back, and give in.
Give in to someone you love.
I sincerely hope the broken relationship can be fixed still.
It is not an easy catch to find someone you love and ready to spend your life with.
"What are you good at?"
"Um, I guess screwing things?"